The Ultimate Homeschool Community Podcast

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AI is quickly becoming part of education—but can it actually help children learn without simply giving them the answers?
In this episode of The Ultimate Homeschool Community Podcast, Tiffany sits down with Alex, a former teacher and creator of Bloomy, an AI-powered learning platform designed to personalize instruction in English, math, and writing.
Alex shares how Bloomy uses diagnostic assessments to identify where a student is academically and then creates an individualized learning path that adapts as the student progresses.
Tiffany and Alex also dig into some of the biggest questions parents have about AI in education, including accuracy, quality control, accommodations for different learners, and whether too much AI could interfere with critical thinking.
The conversation also explores how personalized AI tools could fit into homeschooling, microschools, and co-ops while allowing educators and parents to remain actively involved in the learning process.
Episode Highlights:
How AI can create a more personalized learning experience
How Bloomy identifies a student's starting point through diagnostic assessments
Adapting lessons based on student performance and mastery
Using AI to teach rather than simply give students answers
Addressing concerns about AI accuracy and quality assurance
Supporting different learning needs, including read-aloud accommodations
How Bloomy approaches math, English, and writing instruction
Aligning personalized learning with state academic standards
The benefits and potential risks of bringing AI into education
How AI-powered learning could support homeschools, microschools, and co-ops
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Alex Southmayd is the Founder & CEO of Bloomy, which provides AI-powered K–12 curriculum for English Language Arts, math, and writing. He began his career as a 7th-grade ELA and writing teacher with Teach For America before joining Manhattan Prep, where he developed quantitative and verbal curriculum for the GRE and GMAT. Most recently, he served as an Engagement Manager at McKinsey & Company, where he led AI and digital transformation initiatives. Alex holds a bachelor's degree in Law, Jurisprudence, and Social Thought from Amherst College, a Master of Education from Boston University, and an MBA from Stanford Graduate School of Business. Bloomy serves homeschool families and microschool leaders across the country, including Prenda and Apogee schools. Bloomy is also eligible for reimbursement in most states that provide ESAs. Bloomy is backed by Y Combinator, the founders of Clever, and the co-founder of Rocketship Public Schools.
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Pat Wesolowski is a nationally sought-after homeschool speaker, author, and mentor who has spent more than 30 years helping families homeschool with confidence. As a homeschooling mother of nine, former college admissions counselor, curriculum developer, and homeschool consultant, Pat understands both the daily realities of home-schooling and the long-term goal of preparing students for success beyond high school. Through her podcast and Substack, Homeschooling Doesn’t Have to Be Hard, as well as her workshops and educational resources, she encourages parents to replace overwhelm with confidence and create a homeschool experience their family can truly enjoy.
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Coming Soon: Our Homeschool Methods Series! There’s no one-size-fits-all way to homeschool! In this upcoming series, we’re sitting down with real homeschool parents and educators to explore different homeschool methods—from Charlotte Mason and Montessori to Classical, Unschooling, Project-Based Learning, Eclectic homeschooling, and more. We’ll talk about what these methods actually look like in everyday life, what works, what doesn’t, and how families adapt them to fit their children and their unique needs.
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In this episode of The Ultimate Homeschool Community Podcast, I’m chatting with Shelley Mechette about something so many moms struggle with—the pressure to somehow balance it all.
Motherhood, homeschooling, work, relationships, personal goals, and everything in between can leave us constantly trying to keep all the plates spinning. But what if balance isn’t actually the goal?
Shelley encourages moms to throw the idea of the perfect balancing act out the window and instead focus on creating harmony—recognizing that different areas of our lives will need more of us in different seasons.
We talk about releasing unrealistic expectations, becoming intentional about what deserves our attention, and creating rhythms that allow us to experience more peace instead of constantly feeling pulled in every direction. If you’ve been trying to “do it all” and wondering why you still feel overwhelmed, this conversation is an invitation to stop chasing balance and start building a life that works together in harmony.
 
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What if resistance isn’t defiance—but information? In this episode, we explore why true educational success requires more than getting kids to comply, and how parents can create greater buy-in by giving children meaningful choices, understanding what may be behind their resistance, and building an educational ecosystem where they can thrive.
From homeschool and microschools to mentors, co-ops, community programs, and traditional schools, the goal isn’t finding the “perfect” model—it’s continually asking, “What does this child need to thrive right now?” 
About Deborah:Deborah DeLisle is the founder of Regenerate Education Lab, where she helps families, educators, and schools create optimal learning environments that inspire curiosity, capability, and a lifelong love of learning.With more than 25 years of experience between public education, alternative education, nature-based learning, homeschooling support, and microschool and teacher tool development, Deborah believes that meaningful learning happens when children engage with the real world through authentic experiences, relationships, and purposeful work.She is currently helping launch Foothill Frolic Farm & Forest School in Kingsport, Tennessee, while also coaching homeschooling families and developing innovative tools that make project-based learning and educational documentation more accessible for educators.Leading a movement she calls:  Regenerate Education, her passion is helping adults rethink what education can be—not by adding more curriculum, but by intentionally designing environments where children naturally become curious, confident, capable, and deeply connected to both their communities and the natural world. 
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**SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE**Tiffany sits down with Wylde to explore how parents can raise creative, confident children in a world increasingly shaped by AI, gaming, and screens. They discuss balancing technology with real-world experiences, helping kids learn through failure, and intentionally building the self-belief they need to thrive.
About Wylde Scott:Wylde Scott — A World of Imagination: https://www.wyldescott.com/Literacy Non-Profit | The Imagination Project: https://imaginationproject.org/
check out our first episode about imagination: https://youtu.be/QY05BkFDWeE?si=ZI2dYPWfac-bWkFM
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About our Podcast Partner the Homeschool Counseling Network:
Kimberly Bennett, LPC, is a seasoned clinician (20+ years in professional counseling), a homeschool parent (8 years), a nonprofit leader, and the founder/CEO of the Homeschool Counseling Network, where she champions culturally responsive allied health, mental health, coaching, and consulting support for homeschooling families.The Homeschool Counseling Network is a national nonprofit dedicated to expanding access to homeschool‑friendly care by training professionals in cultural responsiveness, ethics, and best practices, and supporting families through advocacy, resources, and community education. HCN equips providers with specialized training and offers families practical tools, guidance, and a vetted directory of professionals who understand the homeschool experience.Website: www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.com
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** Share and Subscribe so more families can find our resources** This is the third episode in the series of what is PDA. Tiffany and Kaitlin discussed the challenges of modern life, including technology overload and increased expectations, which have led to overwhelming perfectionism and difficulty coping with daily demands. They emphasized the importance of addressing personal reactions before trying to solve problems, using acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) as a framework. The conversation highlighted the distinction between mental health issues and reasonable responses to life's challenges, with Kaitlin suggesting that many behaviors labeled as problematic are actually reasonable responses to overwhelming circumstances.
About Kaitlin:
Kaitlin Wilder is a BCBA of 15 years with experience supporting “problem” behavior across a variety of ages and abilities in public and alternative education, home and community-based ABA therapy, school consulting, and ACT based life-coaching. After burning out as a public school SPED teacher and BCBA, she’s spent the past 5 years integrating ACT into daily life and ABA practice and ditch the force and control for stress reduction and well-being. She’s here to bring “modern day ABA” of ACT to help humans of all ages and abilities end their daily loops and stop fixing their “problems” so they can find meaning in their lives.
Podcast Partner: Homeschool Counseling Network 
Kimberly Bennett, LPC, is a seasoned clinician (20+ years in professional counseling), a homeschool parent (8 years), a nonprofit leader, and the founder/CEO of the Homeschool Counseling Network, where she champions culturally responsive allied health, mental health, coaching, and consulting support for homeschooling families. The Homeschool Counseling Network is a national nonprofit dedicated to expanding access to homeschool‑friendly care by training professionals in cultural responsiveness, ethics, and best practices, and supporting families through advocacy, resources, and community education. HCN equips providers with specialized training and offers families practical tools, guidance, and a vetted directory of professionals who understand the homeschool experience.
Website: www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.com
Free Mental Health Resource: https://www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.com/mental-health-toolkit
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Kaitlin and Tiffany discussed how avoidance and attachment patterns from childhood can influence behavior and emotional responses, particularly in parenting situations. They explored how technology, including food and environmental factors, contributes to behavioral issues like PDA, with Kaitlin emphasizing that many technological developments initially intended to help have unintended negative consequences. The number one skill is about using self-awareness as an intervention strategy to address these behavioral patterns.
About Kaitlin:
Kaitlin Wilder is a BCBA of 15 years with experience supporting “problem” behavior across a variety of ages and abilities in public and alternative education, home and community-based ABA therapy, school consulting, and ACT based life-coaching. After burning out as a public school SPED teacher and BCBA, she’s spent the past 5 years integrating ACT into daily life and ABA practice and ditch the force and control for stress reduction and well-being. She’s here to bring “modern day ABA” of ACT to help humans of all ages and abilities end their daily loops and stop fixing their “problems” so they can find meaning in their lives.
Podcast Partner:Kimberly Bennett, LPC, is a seasoned clinician (20+ years in professional counseling), a homeschool parent (8 years), a nonprofit leader, and the founder/CEO of the Homeschool Counseling Network, where she champions culturally responsive allied health, mental health, coaching, and consulting support for homeschooling families.The Homeschool Counseling Network is a national nonprofit dedicated to expanding access to homeschool‑friendly care by training professionals in cultural responsiveness, ethics, and best practices, and supporting families through advocacy, resources, and community education. HCN equips providers with specialized training and offers families practical tools, guidance, and a vetted directory of professionals who understand the homeschool experience.Website: www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.comFree Mental Health Resource: https://www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.com/mental-health-toolkithttps://www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.com/categories
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Tiffany and Kaitlin discussed PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) and ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) on their podcast. Kaitlin explained that PDA involves an overwhelming avoidance of demands to a debilitating level, distinguishing it from typical behavior. She emphasized that ACT can be used by behavior analysts to address cooperation challenges in modern society, where humans face difficulties balancing immediate and long-term gratification. The conversation briefly touched on historical comparisons between the 1900s and present day.
About Kaitlin:
Kaitlin Wilder is a BCBA of 15 years with experience supporting “problem” behavior across a variety of ages and abilities in public and alternative education, home and community-based ABA therapy, school consulting, and ACT based life-coaching. After burning out as a public school SPED teacher and BCBA, she’s spent the past 5 years integrating ACT into daily life and ABA practice and ditch the force and control for stress reduction and well-being. She’s here to bring “modern day ABA” of ACT to help humans of all ages and abilities end their daily loops and stop fixing their “problems” so they can find meaning in their lives.
 
Podcast Partner:
Kimberly Bennett, LPC, is a seasoned clinician (20+ years in professional counseling), a homeschool parent (8 years), a nonprofit leader, and the founder/CEO of the Homeschool Counseling Network, where she champions culturally responsive allied health, mental health, coaching, and consulting support for homeschooling families.
The Homeschool Counseling Network is a national nonprofit dedicated to expanding access to homeschool‑friendly care by training professionals in cultural responsiveness, ethics, and best practices, and supporting families through advocacy, resources, and community education. HCN equips providers with specialized training and offers families practical tools, guidance, and a vetted directory of professionals who understand the homeschool experience.
Website: www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.com
 
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Tiffany interviewed Brad "Wylde Scott" about the importance of imagination in homeschool education. Brad, a children's author with over 20 years of experience, discussed how traditional school curriculums have moved away from fostering imagination and creativity, particularly during crucial developmental years from age 5 to 10 when the brain is pruning connections and becoming more focused on efficiency. He emphasized that parents should make imagination and creativity 60-70% of their homeschool curriculum rather than just an afterthought, and shared specific techniques including daily prompting, structured play with missions, project-based learning, and forcing silent time for deep thinking. Brad also addressed concerns about AI in education, arguing that rather than avoiding technology, parents should carefully curate device usage while providing alternative engaging activities like reading and hands-on projects. The conversation covered practical applications of these concepts, including how to implement them in project-based learning and the importance of building confidence through repeated success experiences.
 
About Wylde Scott:
Wylde Scott — A World of Imagination
Literacy Non-Profit | The Imagination Project
 
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About our Podcast Partner The Homeschool Counseling Network:
Kimberly Bennett, LPC, is a seasoned clinician (20+ years in professional counseling), a homeschool parent (8 years), a nonprofit leader, and the founder/CEO of the Homeschool Counseling Network, where she champions culturally responsive allied health, mental health, coaching, and consulting support for homeschooling families.
The Homeschool Counseling Network is a national nonprofit dedicated to expanding access to homeschool‑friendly care by training professionals in cultural responsiveness, ethics, and best practices, and supporting families through advocacy, resources, and community education. HCN equips providers with specialized training and offers families practical tools, guidance, and a vetted directory of professionals who understand the homeschool experience.
Website: www.homeschoolcounselingnetwork.com
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